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hello, m, name K!11!E, and i get called gay on evil|clan server, but for f*** sakes i,m not gay, it's a joke that started about 4 mounths ago, i,m not sure, but now everyone, who can't make upthere own jokes take this "killie's gay joke" and i dont how to stop it, someone please help me, i depressed now.

When i seen that name i had always thought of the reference to the mighty Kilmarnock. But now you mentioned it's related to your self styled camp flamboyant behaviour .. im not sure what you could do to make people believe otherwise.  You now have an identity.. be proud   :D

LMAO! @ online harrassment

First off, I would not even have brought this up on here. Cuz now you will be labeled as the guy that gets picked on. There is NOTHING that can be done unless you speak with the admin of that server but he/she cannot make ppl stop clowning you

Secondly, and this is the most logical thing you can do...uh..CHANGE YOUR DAMN NAME..you are not forced to use your name..you can reinvent yourself over and over and over

Lastly, you need to get some backbone. People will be clowning you for the rest of your life if you dont stand up for yourself. Tell them to fuck off. I dunno how old u are but in life, there will always be someone who is gonna make fun of someone so you better start getting used to hearing jokes and come up with a defense mechanism. (and dont be a moron by doing some Virginia Tech shit either)

Just start all over..even with your name here! Thats my best advice to you!

- Hit -

LoL! So your not Gay then??????


Dont   get bothered by what people say about you online,.. noone knows you.
Ive been called gay kurwa(bitch or something) some puta's here and there some italian words i dont know and some french nasty words i dont understand so,..
all in all im pretty well of with my railgun and the swearing party in my crossahair,...and after some time they just so sick and tired of me railing them they leave ghehehehe,... and thats better then all the nasty words i can come up with :D:D:D

In other words Killie,.......FEK EM ALL! ;)

You paint a target upon yourself. Your attitude will only make it worse.
I suggest you just quit, and save yourself the aggravation if you can't get over it.

I must confess it was me who started calling Killie Gay.
Tut tut.
1 I have apologized to Killie on more than one occasion
2 I called him Gay because he was calling someone else Gay. What goes around comes around.
3 I am sure Killie is not gay
4 There is no number 4
5 This is not the place for such trivia
6 I reserve the right to call anyone gay who is calling others.

Don't take it to heart.

The internet is a funny place. If they call you 'gay', it might be a compliment.

The polite response would be to blow them kisses.

snickersnack is right.

do not take anything on the internet seriously, there is A LOT of joking around. About 90% I would say. You cannot let that kind of thing get to you, whether it be ingame, or out.


outside the game, you will find that there is A LOT of assholes, the best thing you can do is kick them in the balls. just don't be an asshole yourself mmkay? ;)

inside the game, on the internet in general, there is even more assholes. Face it, they do not know you, and you do not know them. Any argument they have against you is meaningless and based off of nothing. Do not take it seriously. It may be tough I know, but maybe the best approach is the one snickersnack proposed. Go along with it! ;) They do not know you in real life, so what does it matter? Plus, they will know that you are joking. 99.99% of the time, when someone is called gay, it is not meant literally.

You should not try to live up to society's or their standards. Live up to your own standards, and nothing but.

To end this off, You should not discriminate against people for their sexual orientation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. They can be wrong in what they say, but it is not necessarily an insult. That is what I believe at least.

i always get a huge boner when players swear at me... \:D/

IMO points of view expressed here are quite a bit too much tainted with gay feelings.
There are some hints I cannot be blind to :
Still :
Let me only point you doubt is the first step which may conduce you to being what you fear.

And what to say about Beret model which seems quite popular amongst players ?

Fortunately until now transgenders didn't make their way to OpenArena.

Create yourself a reputation where calling you a gay is a bad tone. Think about it.

Umm.. just ignore them?
They're being pretty childish, it shouldn't get to you. (at ALL)

Calling someone "gay" isn't even really an insult, unless you are under 15, that is.

a beret wearing black leather and sparkly star shaped glasses would be funky to see around...  really the insults which go around are stupid, i mean people tell me to f-off because i railed the enemy flag carrier like i am supposed to do in capture the flag.

Welcome to the internet. Being called gay is hardly the worst that can happen.

thumbs up to jesus for apologizing.  You are a holy example for us all.... :P

And for the record, I actually AM gay.  So if anyone feels the need to call someone gay, you can find me, I don't mind!

Calling someone gay is gay :D
I rather put a rail up yer **** and make ye scream ,."OOOOOooooooh  yeeaaaah baby"  ;)
If it doesnt make you happy ill try a rocket :P

OMG Move ON

lol this thread is going downhill fast........

yes it does doesnt it :P

god damn I wanna do Gerbil!

lets get it on right now baby ;)
Your place or mine?

no homo?

im over it now... by the way jesus, i dont really call others gay to start with, i wrote plasam on a wall "im gay" as a party joke... you took serouisly, my new name .... Makron, if u thinks it's gay, say so thank u

i,m starting, i was totally stupid doing this...

HATMAN.... Evil|PaniC is the admin over evil|clan server, and he's the one, who made me snap, and do this, i,m kinda..... sensitive, understand that.

oh, "HATMAN" <--- that was evil for sure, i like it ;)

DONT GET ur point brah.

I always thought that gay means "happy". At least it before it was like that.... And as people say, there is no true on internet (well, maybe wikipedia).

In Croatia, calling someone gay, or asshole, or any other name means nothing. We all say that kind of sh!t all the time, so everybody just ignores that.


And i would say one more thing: in english you say i'm  (I am) so you use ' and when you use , that is something that separates words.

Sorry Killie my mistake. You didn't ever call anyone gay. My apologizes for this.
But can I ask. What possessed you to write "I AM GAY" on the wall when you thought you where alone anyway?

As for Evil Panic; If you don't like what he says go to a different server. Simple.

i dont go there no more,,,aand, i did that, just cause..... i messin around, makin a joke

or it was hype, im sure u get my point, i was pretty happy at that point

Killie I am sorry if I have caused you any heartache mate.
You have the makings of a very good OA player so keep at it.
Hope to see you in a game soon.

It's ok man... im over it, it's all in past :)

Killie, what server do you play on mainly? Im always on but never seen you around. You should visit the Nemesis server when you get a chance :D

Man WHAT THE PHUCKanyway, it's digicalk 0.8.1

what u wanna do anyway, teach me somethin,??

Having to bite my lip...... must resist temptation........must resist......

must resist what???

If you can convince the admin of the Nemesis server to raise the max ping, i,ll come... :)

House rules unfortunately Killie, so until OA gets respectable server admins multiplayer will be a little like the Wild West. It sucks, I know.

What sucks? It's fun like hell *lol*

I guess, if immature is your thing :P

It is *lol*

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Cross_urth is already very old.

The basehook of the new one you can find here (in the attachment):
http://www.uluga.ubuntuforums.org/showthread.php?p=6321657

Actually, it is fun.  I always like to challenge myself and frag those who act immature in the game.  It gives me a sense of accomplishment.  ^_^