Hi, here in France, running Tuxfamily.org servers
I've set up Deathmatch (no bot though), first with max 16 players, now 12 as when there are too many people they fire everywhere and some maps become unplayable.
I've set up Capture The Flag as well (10 players).
See
http://openarena.ws/board/index.php?topic=242.0 for the announcement and difficulties / solutions I encountered.
I may set up one bot at least too ;-) (when I find the commands in the config file...)
ATM I do not see your server at
http://dpmaster.deathmask.net/?game=openarena ?
edit: ah ok, just appeared with 232 ms of ping /o\ (FYI the Tuxfamily.org servers have 34 ms here ;-) )