Since most of the servers it seems are not U.S., that explains a lot and why I'm getting such random high pings and packet loss. No question, that would be a major issue.
I began playing today after I requested a service upgrade, which does route a bit better I guess but my ISP does in fact throttle UDP which may be another issue with this whole mess. Either way, I had some decent play today and actually got to win quite a few matches which is amazing since I haven't come close yet. The targeting was way better and what I found was, with a lower grade service, even with high download speeds, the quality they use basically stinks. The more you upgrade, the cleaner connection you get, not just speed, or so a tech told me.
Yep, usually between 4 pm and 6 pm my time is when the service gets nasty then clears up after that. What gets me is, now that it's holding up, I developed more issues which had me nearly tearing out what's left of my hair. For no reason, no change in anything on my system, I get, could not load xx.bsp on near every server I tried a bit ago. I tried instas, dms, etc... all the same. Prior to that, my mouse would quit firing in game, no response. I do want to mention, someone with near 700 ping joined an insta game and my connection went to crap, the game became choppy and slow, as soon as they quit, it was back to normal.
This may have to do with the number of ppl that join as well, the throttling is what's likely causing this then. It makes sense.
I sorta laughed although frustrated, I finally get good game play and now can't load any maps on servers lol.